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First U.S. GLBT History Museum Opens in San Francisco

Wednesday, January 12th, 2011

The GLBT History Museum, the first museum dedicated to GLBT history in the U.S. and only the second in the world, will celebrate its official opening on January 13th in San Francisco.  Located at 4127 18th Street in the Castro district, the museum is the culmination of a long-time dream of the GLBT Historical Society.  The opening marks the Society’s 25th anniversary.

“A quarter century after the founding of the GLBT Historical Society, we’re proud to open a museum to showcase our community’s history,” said Paul Boneberg, executive director of the Historical Society. “The GLBT History Museum is in the heart of the Castro, a neighborhood visited not only by locals, but also by tens of thousands of tourists every year who come in search of queer culture. At our museum, they’ll discover treasures from our archives that reflect fascinating stories spanning nearly a century of GLBT life. We have gone all out to create a museum as rich, diverse and surprising as the GLBT community itself. Whether they are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or straight, visitors are sure to be moved, enlightened and entertained.”

The 1,600-square-foot museum chronicles the evolution of what organizers call the liberation of the gay, bisexual, and transgender community.  It will feature two debut exhibitions: In the main gallery, “Our Vast Queer Past: Celebrating GLBT History,” curated by historians Gerard Koskovich, Don Romesburg and Amy Sueyoshi; and in the front gallery, “Great Collections of the GLBT Historical Society Archives,” curated by Paul Boneberg.

The exhibit space was made possible by a generous lease from the Walgreens Corporation, and funding has come from Levi’s, the City of San Francisco, Castro district merchants, and numerous other sponsors and individual donors.

Whether you live in San Francisco or you’re just visiting, please take the time to support America’s first museum dedicated to celebrating our history.

For more information, visit their website: http://www.glbthistory.org/museum/.

For a gallery of photos from the museums exhibits, visit here (if you’re on Facebook).


New York’s Jumeirah Essex House Hotel

Friday, December 10th, 2010

New York’s Jumeirah Essex House Hotel Reaches Out to the Gay Traveler

Reposted from TripOutGayTravel.com

by John Polly

Looking to stay swanky in NYC? The Essex House on Central Park South is welcoming LGBT travelers with stylish, open arms!

The afternoon glow of Central Park and the historic Essex House rising above the trees.

You know you’re going to enjoy a hotel stay when on a gorgeously sunny fall day, after stepping inside from the storied and shiny bustle of Central Park South, being met by the concierge in the richly yet tastefully styled lobby (mind that huge towering flower arrangement in the center of the room) and sailing up 38 floors in a handsome wood-paneled elevator, you find yourself being greeted by name at the door of your suite by your own besuited butler.

“Welcome to the Essex House, Mr. Polly. My name is Annette, and I’ll be your personal butler during your stay.”

I like this already.

Annette is a smart-looking woman in a tuxedo who ushers me into room 3810, which is a large suite bigger than most New York City 1 or 2 bedroom apartments. Gently, yet expediently Annette gives me a thorough tour of the suite… There’s a spacious and warm living room area, a dining area, and on offer there’s complimentary fruit, a bottle of wine, mineral water, and a fun and crafty plate of gourmet chocolates with the hotel’s signature rooftop “Essex House” sign constructed in miniature–in chocolate.  Then come the two bathrooms–one half-bath off the living room, and the master bath which is along the long hallway which leads to the big corner bedroom with windows facing south and west, delivering staggeringly fabulous views of midtown Manhattan, the West Side, the Hudson River and yes, a sizeable portion of the southwest corner of Central Park.

The view from my corner suite looked a bit like this. Hello, New York!

“Thanks Annette, I’ll be fine…” I say calmly, while inside I’m like “Wooooooooohooo! Swankiest NYC hotel room everrrr!”

Of course, before graciously taking her leave, Annette had clued me in to the whereabouts of the hotel’s fitness center and the spa (both on the 3rd floor), the in-house dining options, the business center and basically laid out the ground rules that if I were to need anything at all, she could make it happen.

Left alone in my suite, I snap some pics, text them to a friend or two with messages gasping “Check out this amazing room and view!!!” and other gushing missives. I’m very glad to be someone who covers travel right now. A night in one of New York City’s finest historic hotels situated grandly on Central Park South? Yes, please. I mean, I live in New York (Williamsburg, Brooklyn to be precise) and this experience is already renewing my excitement about how thrilling and indulgent a “visit” to Manhattan can me.

Being the only Jumeirah property in the United States (though more are expected to become part of this world-renowned luxury collection of hotels based in Dubai) the Essex House is smartly eager to welcome LGBT visitors, and I’m here to sample a bit of what they have to offer. And so far I’m impressed. As my overnight visit progresses, so does my appreciation.

After dropping my overnight bag and swanning about the four or five rooms which will be my home for the next 24-hour visit, I head down to the lobby for a glass of champagne and official welcome from the hotel’s general manager, the head of marketing and social media, and one of the concierge/front desk staffers who whisk me and a few other guests on a tour of the lobby, a breezy stroll through the spacious and handsome lobby (Afternoon tea is being served; there are ornate fashion and shopping-themed pastries and sweets on offer!) and around the hotel’s park-front restaurant, South Gate where we’ll be dining tonight. The room is a mix of bright white furnishings, handsome wood tables, a dazzlingly cool geometric mirror-block sculptural wall and just a stylish and airy upbeat vibe.

Along the tour, the Essex House’s in-house art curator Katherine Gass joins us to introduce us to the hotel’s unique collection of art in its public spaces. Turns out the Essex House has a thriving art program and relationship with New York City’s art community, interacting with the city’s museums and galleries, sponsoring major events like the Armory Show (a huge annual showcase of contemporary art) and even boasting its own artist-in-residence series where prominent contemporary artists come and spend time in the hotel, and are given housing and space to create new works–some of which in turn, end up gracing the public spaces of the hotel.

A bit of the Essex House lobby with Mark Innerst’s gorgeous painting of Columbus Circle in the background.

Notable results of this fruitful and smart art program are hanging prominently in the Essex House lobby. I was enthralled by Mark Innerst’s stately and evocative painting of Columbus Circle in the lobby lounge, as well as Atta Kim’s rich and lush pair of very large long-exposure photographs of Central Park presiding over the central lobby area. Both renowned artists now have thriving, ongoing relationships with the hotel which lures their patrons and artful colleagues to the hotel as guests. Savvy, eh?

After getting a quick tour of the fascinating and fun archival photographs of Central Park and New York City which line the hallway leading to the main elevator bay, our tour ascends upstairs to get a glimpse at several of the rooms. No surprises. They’re handsome, well-appointed, very spacious by New York hotel standards, and the park-facing rooms and suites boast staggeringly gorgeous views of Central Park that are the stuff that romantic comedies and swoony New York-based Cinderella stories are made of.

What’s quickly becoming clear as we tour along is that while the vibe and quality of accommodations and services at Essex House are top-notch, five-star luxury caliber, the value is pretty impressive. The most basic rooms here begin in the $400-range, which is pretty much standard for rooms at lesser places in Manhattan. Here, you’re pretty much on par with the quality of a Four Seasons or Ritz-Carlton, but for notably less.

A room with a view.

And arf! Dogs are welcome, too. In fact, in the past few months, Essex House has rolled out the canine-sized red carpet with its festive and innovative Pet Program, which lets dogs check in alongside their masters, and get royal in-room treatment that includes perks such as a “Canine Turndown Service” which includes their own customized bedding, food, and water bowls (all provided by the hip Greenwich Village pooch emporium, Wagwear), gourmet homemade treats, and more all at no extra charge. Pups and their owners can all live the good life on Central Park South.

Our tour wraps, I return to my suite. I get cozy in my big king bed, snag a rare afternoon nap, and still have time for a stroll through the park and the shops at Time Warner Center just barely over a block away, and then it’s time for cocktails and drinks at South Gate. The hotel also offers MP3 Central Park Walking Tours of the art and architecture in the park; you just download them and go. Bike rentals, car service, recommendations of shopping or sights to see… Obviously, they’ve got it covered.











The evening begins with cocktails at long tall communal bar table in the regally lit, lively yet not deafening bar area of the restaurant. I try a Strawberry Fields Caipirinha (a nod to what would have been John Lennon’s 70th birthday this year), while my colleague Justin downed a tasty Dark & Orangey (similar to a Dark & Stormy but fruitier). All were fantastically crafted, delicious, and flavorfully fabulous.

We spend a few minutes perusing South Gates’ clever and fun-to-play-with iPad wine list (They nailed this first. Well done, guys.), a fun techie toy that’s somehow glamorous, playful, savvy, and informative all at once. Of course, when we sit down to dinner, we just let handsome sommelier Olivier Dufeu guide us.

The star chef presiding over the kitchen at South Gate is Kerry Heffernan, who has credits such as Restaurant Bouley and Eleven Madison Park under his belt. The menu at South Gate changes offers seasonally-inspired Modern American fare, and Heffernan partners with local organic farms, fishermen and shellfish harvesters to keep it fresh daily. Our menu was a bright and fantastic litany of tastes, starting with hamachi served with apples, apple cider, lovage, tarragon, and a fine celeryroot remoulade. Then came a uniquely savory but light and creamy lobster flan with grilled shrimp, followed by amazing short ribs, which weren’t large but packed a rich flavor—flanked by “allspiced” squash, “mustardy” mustard greens and côte de boeuf. It all ended with a chocolate pot de crème and almond nougat glace double whammy.

And really, the room was a swank mix of well-appointed guests, New Yorkers splashing out, good-looking thirtysomethings joining for drinks and bar bites, all complemented by the warmth and stylish vibe of the sexy upscale atmosphere. Maybe it was the perfect selection of wines tainting my view, but as the courses progressed, I was having one of the best dining experiences I’ve had in New York in the past year.

Just a small sliver of the wine offerings at South Gate.

After dinner, our group hit the town. Or the bars of Hell’s Kitchen at least. And if you’re a gay traveler familiar with New York, you know that the nearby midtown/Hell’s Kitchen nightlife scene is thriving. Over the course of the night we hit the lively, bubbly, 20- and 30-something packed Bartini, where cute lads bounced around to Katy Perry and Lady Gaga; Club 57 at Providence, more of a multi-leveled velvet rope dance-palace full of boys in their best designer tees (and which frequently boasts visits from pop stars like Kelis or Kelly Rowland); and then the jovial and jam-packed neighborhood bar Posh, with gays of all stripes slurping down cheap drinks and making new friends. There are other hotspots all within prancing distance: Therapy, The Ritz, Barrage, the cheerily divey Ninth Avenue Saloon and to soon-to-open Industry offer up socializing and sass nightly. (Check out the local scene bible Next Magazine for the latest.)

A late night turned into great sleep back in the suite (Best bed and linens ever.) and with morning came a quick peek into the Essex House’s grand Presidential Suite on the 26th floor — also with unreal Central Park views, huge stunningly stylish bathrooms with vast tubs and state-of-the-art shower situations, big beds and every luxe amenity imaginable.

And just when it all should have been too much and our gang was prepping for check out, I managed to prolong my decadence a couple of hours more by scheduling a late check-out and visits to The Spa at Essex House. A 90-minute massage and a 75-minute Sodashi Man facial treatment, I emerged a glowing, relaxed, blissed-out, new-and-improved me.

Yes, the Essex House staffers were making sure that my experience there went off without a hitch. The service was attentive and on-point, but never egregious, and with numerous staffers in-house who are gay and making executive decisions, they’re more than equipped across the board to welcome gay travelers to their upscale slice of New York City in a way that’s savvy, smart, luxe, and stylish but not at all stuffy.

Really. I think you’d rather like it here.

Jumeirah Essex House Hotel, 160 Central Park South, New York, NY 10019
http://www.jumeirah.com/JumeirahEssexHouse

To book your stay at the fabulous and gay-friendly Jumeirah Essex House Hotel, give us a call at Get Gay Travel, 1-800-711-6029


 

“TSA Pat-downs Promote the ‘Homosexual Agenda,’” says Crazy Person with Power

Friday, December 3rd, 2010

Did you know that just by traveling on an airplane you are doing your part to promote the radical ‘Homosexual Agenda’?  Or so claims Eugene Delgaudio, an elected official on the Loudon County Board of Supervisors in Virginia and president of the conservative non-profit Public Advocate of the U.S., in a widely distributed email.  Delgaudio criticizes the TSA’s non-discrimination policy, calling it “the federal employee’s version of the Gay Bill of Special Rights”, and states – in what is surely a bit of deeply repressed wishful thinking – that “the next TSA official that gives you an ‘enhanced pat down’ could be a practicing homosexual secretly getting pleasure from your submission.”

No stranger to nonsense, Delgaudio previously railed again the ‘Homosexual Agenda’ back in April in a steamy piece of homoerotic pulp fiction political fundraising letter where he recounted a visit to some sort of…homosexual petition factory:

“One stormy night I drove to a mailshop hidden deep in a nearly deserted stand of warehouses. I’d heard something was up and wanted to see for myself. As I rounded the final turn my eyes nearly popped. Tractor-trailers pulled up to loading docks, cars and vans everywhere and long-haired, earring-pierced men scurrying around running forklifts, inserters and huge printing presses. Trembling with worry I went inside. It was worse than I ever imagined. Row after row of boxes bulging with pro-homosexual petitions lined the walls, stacked to the ceiling. My mind reeled as I realized hundreds, maybe thousands, more boxes were already loaded on the tractor-trailers. And still more petitions were flying off the press.”

Well, I guess he caught us.  And if you would like to catch Mr. Delgaudio, feel free to contact him at the District Supervisor’s office at eugene@joineugene.com or (703) 421-4599, or at the Public Advocate office, 703-845-1808.

Or if you’d like to speak to Mr. Delgaudio in person, just check the security line at any major U.S. airport, where you’ll find him refusing a full-body scan, breathlessly awaiting his ‘enhanced pat-down’.

3 Gays, 6 Days: Montreal on a Budget

Friday, November 19th, 2010

Fact: Three out of every four men in Montreal are strippers.*  After hockey and being polite, stripping is Canada’s third national pastime.  And while you can drop plenty of Loonies and Toonies if you get too caught up in the show, even enterprising gays traveling on a budget (as my boyfriend, a close friend, and I were on a recent six day adventure) can enjoy our parka-shedding friends without breaking the bank.  Vive le Montreal!

Get there, but take your time.

Americans don’t do train travel well.  Even those of us in the Northeast accustomed to rail travel in and between cities bristle at the thought of using trains for more than commuting, so what I’m about to say will probably be controversial:  take Amtrak from New York City to Montreal.  There, I said it.  I may have lost a fair portion of you already, but for those of you wanting to escape over the border on the cheap, or those desperately in need of some pristine downtime, continue on with me.  I’ll start by ripping off the Band-Aid:  It’s long.  Eleven hours, no exaggeration.  The better part of a day, gone.  A flight is an hour and a half, and as a shirtless fellow pointed out to me in broken but gentle English, “by car it is only six, no?”  Yes.  But the Amtrak Adirondack is an unbeatable $138 roundtrip.  You don’t have to take your shoes and dignity off to go through security, or pay to park your car when you arrive and then worry about its safety because you picked the poorly lit, cheap lot.  And not even a first-class airfare can buy the ridiculous amount of leg stretching afforded by a coach seat on the Adirondack, not to mention the café car.  The café car is by no means grand (it’s a glorified concession stand with a hard working microwave), but you can eat your meals at a table instead of on a tray, or share a bottle of wine and play a game of cards with your traveling companions.  And considering the amount of people horrified by the idea of an eleven hour train ride, chances are high that the train will be pretty empty, so stretch to your heart’s content.

Beyond the price, the real selling point of the Adirondack is the serenity.  Resign yourself to the fact that for eleven hours you have nothing to do but read, listen to music, and be gently rocked in and out of sleep like a baby in a giant, speeding cradle, all while some of America’s most gorgeous scenery rushes by.  The Hudson River Valley is followed by almost the entire length of Lake Champlain, and if you go in the fall like we did, the foliage is an embarrassment of riches.  Even if you fall asleep for a few hours, there will be more when you wake up, leaving you feeling awestruck, blissful, and completely superior to everyone stuck in an airplane or a car.

Sleeping is a waste of time, but…

If you want to take full advantage of a city, the time you spend in your hotel room should be minimal.  And for many budget travelers, considering the room, the less time indoors the better.  But Montreal offers many low-cost options where you won’t mind lingering a little longer when making that much needed day-to-evening outfit change.  Around the Gay Village (“le Village” if you’re feeling local), options abound for hotels and guesthouses hovering around $100 a night.  Many of the cheapest options are locally owned, like Hotel St. Denis or the Quartier Latin Hotel Montreal, which can be easily found for less than $100, but could be considered a step too close to a hostel for some.  If you’re not into taking the gamble on an unknown local hotel, several low-cost chains offer a familiar peace of mind, including Quality Inn, Holiday Inn Express, and the Days Inn Downtown, which, for $110 a night in early November, turned out to be a very pleasant surprise.  Clean, comfortable, friendly, it offered free WiFi and the best location we could ask for.  A five minute walk took us to two Metro stops, but with the restaurants on Rue St. Denis and the bars and clubs of the Village on Rue Ste-Catherine at our backdoor, there was never any need to set foot on the Metro once the sun set.

Wipe your greasy fingers on this vintage napkin…

Montreal is very much a Thursday through Saturday city.  So if you happen to be there from Sunday to Wednesday, chances are you’ll have no problem getting a reservation.  Montreal has more restaurants per capita than any city in North America, second only to New York.  If you walk up Boulevard Saint-Laurent on a Tuesday night and see empty restaurant after empty restaurant, you might wonder (as I did), “Good God, how do these places stay open?”  But that’s not really your problem.  Stop in and enjoy.  Even splurging, a top-quality meal can be had (with drinks) for under $40.

For a cheaper lunch option, there’s poutine, more poutine, and for something different, there’s Smoked Meat (which, if you so chose, could easily be put on top of poutine).  Poutine goes a little something like this:  French fries, topped with gravy, topped with cheese curds.  Add on whatever greasy sin you want from there.  La Banquise (994, Rachel Est) makes the bold claim of having the best poutine in Quebec.  I’m sure they have research to substantiate such a claim, but there’s really no need to check.  You can leave uncomfortably full for under $10, not including beer (poutine’s natural companion).

Schwartz’s Montreal Hebrew Delicatessen is a landmark institution of Montreal and the city’s answer to New York’s Katz’s Deli, serving Montreal’s native charcuterie, Smoked Meat.  Beyond providing ample ammunition for double entendres, Smoked Meat is a delicious, chest-pain-inducing-but-worth-it must-have for any visitor, and Schwartz’s is its indisputable champion.  Served up with a friendliness to out-Canadian any Canadian, not to mention the old world price tag ($6 for a sandwich as big as your face.  Look no further), you might be tempted to make more than one visit (if your ticker can handle it).

Walk off your meat sweats with some window shopping.  While downtown and Old Montreal features all the high and low-end chain stores one could want, for a more hometown (and sometimes more affordable) experience, hit up Rue St. Denis, Boulevard Saint-Laurent, and Avenue du Mont Royal, all in or radiating out from the Plateau district.  Short for Plateau du Mont Royal and just north of downtown, the Plateau is arguably Montreal’s hippest, trendiest neighborhood.  Cafes, restaurants, and bars alternate row on row with beautiful (and sticker-shocking) boutiques, home design stores, and my personal cheap favorites, the vintages shops.  Montreal does not lack for options for “pre-loved” clothing.  Check out Friperie Saint-Laurent (3976, Blvd Saint-Laurent) or Cul de Sac Vintage (3966, Blvd Saint-Laurent) to find something adorable, so when you get back home and you’re asked where you got it, you can smugly say, “Oh…this little vintage store in Montreal.”  It’s really the best feeling.

After a quick coffee and pastry refueling stop at Café Depot (4910, Blvd Saint-Laurent/various locations) or Juliette et Chocolat (3600, Blvd Saint-Laurent/various locations), walk east to Parc la Fontaine (Montreal’s Central Park) for a relaxing stroll along the pond.  Autumn was in full effect while we were there, and golden leaves blanketed the ground.  The sunlight was radiant, and since the opportunities for photo shoots were endless, so were we!

Where to Go A’Gayin’…

While Montreal as a whole is very friendly to gays and lesbians (Canadians have been getting gay-hitched since 2005), gay life in Montreal is centered in the Village, which runs for over a mile along Rue St. Catherine Est.  If you’re in the mood to dance, hit up Parking Nightclub (1296 Rue Amherst).  Since the legal drinking age in Canada is lower than in the U.S., the clubs tend to skew a little younger, so it’s easy to come to the conclusion that the typical gay Montrealer is nineteen years old.  Same story at Cabaret Mado (1115 Rue Ste-Catherine Est), where Montreal’s drag empress holds court at her namesake on Tuesday evenings before turning the floor over to the dancing les garcons et filles.  But if you’re looking for a more mature crowd (mature meaning “can legally rent a car”), you’ll have more luck in the restaurant/lounge or pub scene.  Le Saloon Bistro Bar (1333 Rue Saint-Catherine Est) is an affordably chic, scene-y little eatery (essentially a gay bar with food) featuring an extensive global menu and a long and potent drink list.  Go for dinner and stick around for cocktails and company, and leave with new friends and an unhurt wallet (dinner and a cocktail, less than $25).

Montreal nightlife kicks off late wherever you go, so to warm up for the night, it’s common to start at your friendly neighborhood strip club.  Montreal doesn’t quite have the red-faced, turn-up-your-collar attitude that America does about strip clubs.  Just think cocktail hour with naked people.  No big deal.  While several gay establishments are scattered throughout the city, Rue St. Catherine has the lion’s share, rubbing shoulders with the other gay bars and clubs and not ruffling any feathers.  The three most popular are JP’s (1681 Rue Ste-Catherine Est), Campus (1111 Rue Ste-Catherine Est), and Stock Bar (1171 Rue Ste-Catherine St. Est).  JP’s is purportedly for the twink connoisseur, but every local we asked immediately took on a grimaced, pitiful expression that loudly and clearly said: “yikes”.  Knowing how to take a hint, the three of us stayed away.  On to Campus, the “original” of the mainstream strip clubs and the first of any of the gay establishments you pass as you walk east along St. Catherine, holding strong at the border of Gay and Straight.  Campus might be considered a “niche-market” strip club…if  the niche is steroid usage and poor service.  If that’s your scene, take your coat off and stay a while, you’re home.  Stock, however, was where we decided to kick back, just three innocent American boys in town to experience some Canadian scenery.  Spacious, lovingly lighted, and clean as a whistle, Stock doesn’t have an ounce of skeeze.  It’s the kind of strip club you could take your mother to, if you and mother have a WILDLY inappropriate relationship.  Not that the guys are prudish.  Montreal’s freewheeling attitude towards sex is on full display.  These boys go…far.  The full monty is for amateurs; these guys are titans of their industry.  Sexy, impressively acrobatic (I’m pinning this on Montreal being the birthplace of Cirque du Soleil), and quite friendly when they break the fourth wall and sit down to talk to you, these guys make sure you know you’re in the right place.  Sure they want to give you a private dance and take your money, but even when you tell them no (this is budget travel after all) they’ll thank you and walk away with a smile (this is Canada after all).

Au Revoir…

Montreal is not a city of A-list attractions.  The Olympic stadium (4141 Pierre-de-Coubertin Avenue) is fun to drive by, and the Musée des Beaux-Arts (1380 Sherbrooke Ouest) is world-class, but the city is best in the day-to-day.  Do as the Montrealers do and put down the guidebook, stumble into a boutique, plop down at a café, dig in at a bistro, and stay up all night dancing, drinking, and gawking.  Unless you come back with pictures you’re not legally allowed to put on Facebook, and stories you can’t tell at family functions, you haven’t properly experienced Montreal.  Sure we left fatter than we arrived, and probably looked pretty haggard when we arrived at the train station on the last morning, but we still had plenty of toonies jingling in our pockets**, and an eleven-hour train to catch up on our sleep.  Montreal, on the cheap.  Sacré bleu, we did it!

(All of the hotels mentioned in this article, in addition to Montreal hotels across a variety of budgets, can be found via our search engine on getgaytravel.com.  For recommended gay friendly and Tag approved hotels, check out our Montreal destination guide.)


*This is 100% true.

** We opted not to pelt the strippers with coins.  A tip is one thing, a bruise is quite another.  You’re welcome, “Jacque.”

Southern Decadence

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

Come to New Orleans this Labor Day weekend as the Big Easy opens its arms (and legs) to raucous gays everywhere for Southern Decadence!!  From September 2-6, the French Quarter fills up with thousands of gay revelers for a bacchanal that only New Orleans could host.

Get Gay Travel has negotiated an exclusive rate with The Iberville Suites of New Orleans so you can rest your weary head after your days and nights of partying.  This beautiful Old World boutique hotel is located in the heart of the French Quarter, so you won’t have to stumble home too far.

You won’t find this offer anywhere else, so give us a call today at 1-800-711-6029 to book your stay for as low as $129 a night for king suites!  This exclusive offer ends August 26, so act fast.

Gay Games 2010 – Day 5

Sunday, August 8th, 2010
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The games may be over now, but there’s still lots of footage to come! Here’s day 5 of the games including Men’s 50 meter butterfly, Men’s 800 meter dash, and the 5k road race.

A Big Gay Pat on the Back from Houston to Shanghai

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

At the USA Pavilion at the World Expo in Shanghai, Annise Parker, the openly lesbian mayor of Houston, praised the city for its LGBT inclusiveness and its entrepreneurial spirit.

“Shanghainese and Houstonians are similar,” Parker said in an Aug. 3 address.  “They care about what you do, not who you are.”

Shanghai is among the more accepting cities of China’s LGBT population, which is not legally discriminated against, but which still suffers from social stigma.  In June 2009, the city hosted China’s first gay pride festival.

Houston made history in December 2009 when it became the largest U.S. city to elect an openly gay mayor.

“What Houston and Shanghai have in common is the growth-oriented entrepreneurial altitude,” said Parker, who is leading a 60-member delegation of Houston business leaders.  “To boost development, a city needs to be open to a full range of people, especially the innovative ones who break barriers, like people of the gay community.”

Here here!

Gay Games 2010 – Cologne, Germany

Sunday, August 1st, 2010
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Gutten Tag! I’m in Cologne, Germany for the Gay Games 2010! Over 10,000 GLBT athletes from all over the world are competing in the games in every event you can imagine. From July 31st to August 7th athletes will be giving it their all to compete fro bronze, silver and gold.

I’m extremely happy to be here and to be competing in the Olympic Distance Triathlon! This is only my second Triathlon after the NYC Triathlon only 2 weeks ago! This course was flatter, but a bit longer. Still so much fun.

I’ll be going around to different sporting events, cultural presentations, and festivities to give you the inside perspective of the Gay Games as the week goes on. Now that my event is over, it’s to the beer garden for celebration!

For more information on the Gay Games, please visit: gaygamescologne.com

Nepal to Host First Gay Pride

Saturday, July 31st, 2010

On August 25th, Kathmandu, Nepal will hold the nation’s first Gay Pride parade, says Sunil Babu Pant, Nepal’s first publicly gay lawmaker and a leading gay rights activist in South Asia.

Pant said he hopes up to 3,000 gays, lesbians, transvestites and transsexuals from Nepal and neighboring countries will march through the streets of the capital Kathmandu on August 25. The date has been chosen to coincide with a centuries-old Hindu festival when Nepalese men traditionally dress up in women’s clothing, and which has in recent years been adopted by Nepal’s increasingly vocal gay community.

‘We want to make this a truly international event,’ said Pant.’  ‘Nepal has made so much progress on gay issues in the last few years, and we hope to spread hope and inspire others.’

The parade will feature live music and include elephants and horses dressed in bright colors, and will culminate with a candle-lit memorial service for victims of HIV and violence.

Sunil Babu Pant, Nepal’s first openly gay MP

Photo Credit: Blue Diamond Society

This is progress on hyper speed for a country that only decriminalized homosexuality in December 2007.  (That ruling, by the Nepali Supreme Court, also brought recognition of transgendered individuals as a “third sex”.)   Less than a year later on November 18, 2008, the Supreme Court directed the government to enact laws granting equal rights to LGBT citizens, including same-sex marriage.  The court ordered the government to form a seven member committee to formulate laws similar to European countries that recognize same-sex marriage.  The constitution of Nepal, which is expected to be completed in May of 2011, will include same-sex marriage and protection for sexual minorities.

Pant, apparently a very busy man, is also a leading advocate of making Nepal a new LGBT tourism destination and the founder and chairman of Pink Mountain Travels & Tours, which is welcoming gay, lesbian, and transgendered tourists into Nepal with open arms, showing what a LGBT friendly country Nepal can be and, of course, showing off his beautiful country at the top of the world.

The website is very new, so keep checking back as they develop more.  http://www.pinkyatra.com/

It’s the dawn of a new age for Nepal and LGBT people in South Asia, so grab your hiking boots and make a visit to the gay-friendliest place in all the Himalayas.

Lesbian Cruising with Olivia: Top 9 Tips for Cruise Virgins

Sunday, July 25th, 2010

Check out this great article about going on an Olivia Cruise by Jennifer Vanasco over at 365gay.com.  Everyone has to have a first time…

Lesbian Cruising with Olivia: Top 9 Tips for Cruise Virgins

My partner Jenny and I didn’t know what to expect on our first cruise. Would we get seasick? Would we get along? Would we get the Norwalk Virus?

n our first year and a half together we had done only a little traveling – to Chicago, to DC for the Inauguration, and to North Carolina to visit relatives. We have pretty different styles: Jenny is more social and does more advance destination research; I’m more spontaneous, bring a lot of reading material along and am more prone to napping.

Neither of us were sure we were “cruise people.” Jenny worried about feeling trapped or getting sick. I worried about hating everyone and seeing only Disneyfied versions of the countries we were visiting.

It turns out that we I had a great time on Olivia’s 20th anniversary cruise to the Western Caribbean (we were their guests) – still, there are things we wish we had known before stepping on board.

Here are the nine things you need to know before you go off cruising into the sunset.

1. Know thyself. There is a lot to do on a cruise ship. Maybe too much. Every hour or so on our ship, there would be an announcement about some incredibly fun activity happening somewhere else.

There are BBQs. Pool games. Informative seminars. Comedians. Dessert extravaganzas with chocolate fountains and bread baked in the shape of mice. Before you go, talk to your partner (or have a long conversation with yourself) about what you actually need.

- Are you looking for serious R&R? Then limit yourself to one activity a day, sleep in, and don’t get off at every port.

- Trying to immerse yourself in the lesbian community you don’t get at home? Go to the social hours, sit with new people during meals and dance into the night.

- Looking for adventure? Get off the ship early at your port of call and have your excursions lined up in advance. Use your at sea days to relax.

- Just know what you want before you get there, so you don’t stumble off the ship needing a vacation from your vacation.

We did not do this. Instead, we tried to do everything possible (you’ll get a hint of what “everything possible” is by watching the video we made of Jenny. And no, she wasn’t really drinking a beer on the treadmill.) We took a dance class. We swam in the pool. We went to mixers. We went to the shows. We met the Indigo Girls.

We were so tired that we got off the ship and slept for two days straight.

2. Bring a sweater. In my imagination, cruises are all bikinis and fruity drinks on the outside Lido Deck.

In reality, when the boat is moving, it can be windy and cold. Also, ships keep the air conditioning up high in the inside public areas. So have a light jacket – and have warm clothes for dinner, socializing at the bar, gambling, and other indoor activities. You see the same people over and over. Don’t let them see you in the same sweatshirt every night.

3. Carry business cards. Maybe not those stodgy ones from the corporate office. But a lot of women made up special couple cards from places like Vistaprint.com that had both their names, their home contact info and their cabin number.

Then carry them. Business cards do you no good if they’re hiding in the top drawer of the dresser in your cabin.

Also, if you’re floating away on Olivia, decorate your door. That way people can find you – and they will leave you messages if you put up a wipe-off board. It’s like college!  But no homework. And, unless you went to a women’s college (I did!) a lot more ladies.

4. Do your research. Sure, you can let the cruise line do everything for you, including selling you port excursions. But you’ll spend a lot less money – and likely have more fun – if you plan your excursions yourself.

TripAdvisor and CruiseCritic have advice in each port of call; sometimes you can get actual footage of excursions on YouTube. Olivia has a great bulletin board where you can meet women before you sail and invite others to join you on excursions you plan yourself.

Jenny and I went swimming with dolphins in Cozumel, inner-tubed down a river running through a cave in Belize and made friends with locals in Honduras. We did our sightseeing with smaller groups than if we had gone with the cruise line’s choices, saw more areas that were not specifically geared toward tourists and saved about $350.

5. Watch your alcohol. You will be offered Bloody Marys with breakfast, beers with lunch, cocktails with dinner – and specialty drinks anytime you step out of your stateroom. All that drinking is expensive (even soda adds up), so know before you go how much you can afford and keep track of your libations. Some who have posted on cruise bulletin boards say that they have come home to several thousand dollars worth of drink charges. Yikes.

If you know that you need your nightly – and afternoon and morning – cocktail, then most ships have drink cards you can buy in advance at a discount. It’s likely only worth it for really big drinkers, though – most women on our cruise were giving their drinks away by the end.

6. It’s fun to be single. Olivia has special meet and greets and excursions for solo travelers. On our cruise, they traveled in packs and always seemed to be having a great time.

We found it tough to make friends with other couples (women seemed to be looking for a romantic vacation for two, or already were sailing with many other friends) so if you’re cruising for the first time – weirdly – going single might be best. Or hey, just go to the single social hours. No one will stop you.

7. Sanitize. The Norwalk Virus, H1N1 and the common cold are all hanging out around a ship’s handrails, doorknobs and public bathrooms. Try not to shake hands. Cough into your elbow. Wash your hands whenever you pass a sink. And use all that hand sanitizer that is everywhere.

If you get sick – you’ll be quarantined in your room. Jenny caught a bad cough the last day, but otherwise we were illness-free.

8. Lesbian cruises: they’re not for cruising. Sure, there are women who met their partners on an Olivia cruise. But unlike cruises for gay men, there’s not much of a hookup vibe. Most people come with their partners or in tight groups. If you want some action, you should go looking on land.

9. Prepare for re-entry. I didn’t get seasick on the ship – but I sure did get landsick when I got home. My kitchen floor was rolling for days (this is not uncommon for people on week-long cruises). Happily, we also had messages from people on Facebook we had met on the cruise, great stories to tell our friends and silly pictures of us playing with dolphins. (We also had a great 12 hours in Tampa afterwards.)

Women who’ve been on one Olivia cruise tend to take another – and we can see why. By the second day, Jenny and I were making lists of what we would bring next time and how we would plan differently.

Once you know what to expect and how to plan, you can lay back and let the cruise ship do the rest.

Check out our Olivia page to book your first (or next) cruise.

http://getgaytravel.com/cruises/gay-cruises/olivia

 

 

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